hello there again :P

ah, it's been a long while since I last blogged anything proper. Well u know, proper. hahaha. I think my blog is full of shits I randomly updated on. Anyway, I was reading thru a friend's blog who talked about girls and their obligations in family as they grow up and form their own families(ie get married and become someone else's wife lah. err transgender and lesbian probably don't count cause their partner would still be ladies? idk. ) So yeah, here's a question for u guys(if u ever read I mean).

When you get married(or even if you don't, then IF you ever get married ok),

as a guy: do you think you would help your wife with the house chores or do you think you should help her with all that messy stuff? or would you want to do it and let her rest and watch tv(hmm.. possible but unlikely to happen huh)

as a girl: do you think your husband should help out with house chores or you don't want him to help out? like just let him rest after a long day at work(oh come on, don't bullshit me :P) or rather, would u pick a guy who wouldn't help out in the house?

or the alternative solution: get a maid. but what if u guys want to save money and decide not to?

hmm strange post i know, i was kind of reading about it and wondered how people think about this thing. cos it's like for our parents' generation, most of the time it's the mom doing the house chores. then till like those people born in the 60s or 70s, I think the guys are more willing to do these *zha boh eh kang koi(ladies' work?)*

comments please.. kamsiah (i missed hokkien arrr. BOH LANG EH HIAO HOKKIEN HERE ARR! zo lang boh ee su)